How to Live Without God

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Are you sure you should be reading this?

This essay is written for two kinds of people: those raised in a religious tradition that no longer satisfies them, and those raised without a religious background at all.  The first kind of person often feels loss and trepidation, and may be hesitant to give up something that perhaps has been meaningful, or at least comforting at times, in the past.  The second kind of person may instead experience a sense of absence, the lack of anything firm on which to base an attitude and approach to life.

How do you move beyond these doubts to something more positive?

When people are inclined to convert to religion, there is a community of like-minded souls eager to welcome them and to ease the transition.  For those moving the other way, though, or for those who are non-religious and staying put, there is no equivalent to that.  Often, you are on your own.  That’s why this essay was written.  You are not on your own, because others have walked this trail ahead of you.

If you are struggling a bit to figure out how you can achieve a fulfilling life without religion, you will find here a set of ideas that you can try on for size, and an overall framework within which you can fill in your own details.   You won’t get all the answers, but you’ll get yourself off to a good start.

If, however, you are a religious believer and are comfortable in your creed, this was not written for you.  Some of your beliefs are not going to be treated as kindly here as you might like.  I have no wish to annoy you, nor to “convert” you away from your religious life.  If it works for you, that’s fine with me, and it is probably best to set this essay down now.  There is no need to create religious doubts where none exist.

But for the rest of you, read on.  I hope that you will find what follows to be thought-provoking, useful, and comforting.  You are on a good path.  Let me help show you where it leads…

 

Contents

Chapter 1: Should you live without God?
    The inertia of faith
    Does God exist?
    Is the Bible the “Word of God”
    Was Jesus divine?
    Is there life after death?
    Could billions of people be wrong?
    Does God work for you?

Chapter 2: Can you be moral without God?
   
Don’t be a “why’s” guy
    Where good and evil come from
    The content of secular morality
    Keeping your moral balance
    Naturalism vs. absolutism

Chapter 3: How you can live without God
   
Where do we find happiness?
    What if there is no life after death?
    What is the purpose and meaning of life?
    How do we cope with disappointment and despair?
    How do you make the transition away from religion?
    Raising children without faith

Final thoughts

(c) 2006 by C.S. Yanikoski